Feel full now
Self help
Effie
5/11/20252 min read


Thereâs something Iâve been seeing more and more clearly: everything in life is relative. Love, money, time, energyâtheyâre not fixed numbers. Theyâre feelings. And itâs not what we have, but how we feel about what we have, that shapes our reality.
You can be surrounded by love and still feel unloved. You can live in a luxury home and still feel like you havenât âmade it.â Meanwhile, someone with very little can walk the world in deep joy, feeling wealthy in spirit and generous in heart.
So whatâs going on here?
The World Teaches Us to Feel Lack
From the moment weâre born, society teaches us: you are not enough yet. Not pretty enough. Not rich enough. Not productive enough. Even wellness culture and âself-improvementâ can become subtle forms of shameâconstantly whispering that thereâs a better version of you, just out of reach.
And so we start measuring everything:
âHow much do they love me?
âHow much time do I have?â
âAm I successful enough?â
But hereâs the truth Iâm learning:
As long as youâre measuring, youâre not feeling.
You Can Live in Abundance Now
Abundance isnât something you arrive atâitâs a realm you choose to live in.
Itâs not a destination, itâs a decision.
Itâs not âwhen I get thisâŠâ but âI already am.â
Itâs a soft breath. A peaceful heart. A mind that notices: I have so much right now.
And in that momentâwhether youâre single, in love, broke, blooming, or somewhere in-betweenâyou realize: I am rich in life
Why We Mock Abundance
We live in a culture that now calls it âdeluluâ to dream big or feel deeply fulfilled without external proof. People mock those who claim joy before they've âearned it,â who choose to believe in love, even if others canât see it.
But thatâs only because lack is the dominant frequency.
And when you shine in abundance, you trigger those still trapped in lack. Not because you're wrongâbut because your light reminds them thereâs another way.
Weâre Living in Two Worlds at Once
You can share a home, a job, even a bedâand still live in different realities.
One person is in the realm of lack: never enough love, never enough time.
The other is living in the realm of abundance: everything is a gift, everything is enough.
We each get to choose which realm we live in. Every day.
A Simple Shift Back to Abundance
Thereâs no better self
Donât wait for proof.
Donât wait for permission.
Feel full now.
Act from overflow now.
You are already there.
And the moment you feel thatâyouâve already entered a new realm